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LOCKED-SHUT: 10 Questions for Steel Bondage Scenes
Rather than try to tell you what is safe or unsafe, this document sets out
most of the risks you need to think about when using metal restraints in a
BDSM scene. Some of these questions also apply to styles of bondage using
rope, leather or other flexible restraints. However, this document doesn't
cover non-bondage issues of a scene, such as how to negotiate and establish
informed consent with your captive, medical issues such as diabetes which
introduce additional risks for many kinds of BDSM, or the special dangers
for people wanting to do unattended self-bondage. As such, it is only a
starting point for your own risk assessment of the scene you're trying to do.
To make these questions easier to remember, the key words form the phrase
"LOCKED-SHUT", and
they're not in any order of importance. (The one that
goes wrong is the most important!)
- Load-bearing?
- Are any parts of the restraints going to bear a load? Are they strong
enough for that? Steel cuffs and chains are normally unsuitable for
suspension by themselves because they spread the load across too small an
area of the captive's flesh. But even if you're using leather suspension cuffs
plus chains, is the rated strength of the chains greater than the weight of
your captive plus their other restraints? Many people recommend a safety
factor of "several times more" the stated strength of a chain to allow for
violent struggling and
jerking against the chain. Furthermore, even if you're not suspending
your captive, if something goes wrong (for example, they faint) could
your restraints end up having to take the weight? Are they strong
enough for that? In particular, you should avoid putting weight on padlock
mechanisms, especially sudden weight, since it may make them harder to
unlock or even cause a jam. Try to have the solid metal of the lock hasp
taking any force on a padlock: you may need to thread chain back on
itself to do this.
- Overtight?
- Are the restraints overtight? Will they put too much pressure on nerves,
flesh and joints if the captive moves about? Wrists and especially ankles
change shape as the limbs move: ankles are bigger on a standing captive,
and this can put a lot of pressure on the exposed tendons if restraints
were put on tight when laid down. Or is the bondage so tight
that the captive can't change position and always has pressure on a
few small areas of flesh? You can get a pressure sore in as little as
two hours. A good rule of thumb is that you can
always get a finger in between each restraint and that piece of your
captive, without you helping your captive to shift their weight or
otherwise moving them about.
- Crossed-threads? Jammed locks?
- Are you thinking about the risk of crossing threads or jamming a lock
when you're putting restraints on or taking them off? You shouldn't
need to force any steel equipment you use. Taking your time, avoiding cheap
locks, being careful about rust and keeping things oiled all help with
this.
- Keys not one key? Locks not one lock?
- Are you relying on one key or one lock to release your captive? Have
you thought about an alternative release route if that key or lock
can't be used? You can't rely on cutting chain, steel plate or padlock
hasps in an emergency, so you need a back up release option. For
example, with handcuffs, having two keys, one for each wrist lock, is a
good idea. In general, the more complicated and fragile a lock is, the
greater the risk in relying on it: so the screw-locks on some pre-20th
century cuffs are less of a risk than a complicated padlock.
Most emergencies can be dealt with even if one wrist cuff is
still locked on, but you don't want to have a captive choking on their own
vomit on their back when your only key is broken off in your hand.
- Extremities?
- Wrist, ankles, knees and elbows are good for bondage because they are
narrower points on the body that make bonds difficult to slip. But this
also leads to the risk of circulation being cut off too, which will
produce numbness and in extreme cases damage to tissue deprived of
oxygen and even blood clots which may travel to the heart, brain or
lungs. You can reduce this risk by avoiding putting pressure anywhere
you can feel a pulse: those are the points where arteries are vulnerable
because they cross bone just under the skin. Also, you can monitor
extremities by checking for numbness, by feeling the temperature of the
limb and seeing if the captive can still feel sensations there.
- Double-locked?
- Most 20th century handcuffs incorporate a ratchet mechanism, which lets
them tighten without the use of the key, but only slacken when
unlocked. If the captive struggles, this can lead to the cuffs
overtightening, and for this reason all good ratchet handcuffs include
a double locking mechanism which prevents further tightening. For
cuffs using standard handcuff keys, this is done with the short, blunt
spike opposite the key shaft. Have you double-locked your cuffs? If you
bought cheap and nasty ratchet cuffs that don't double lock, how have
you prevented them from overtightening? (You can sometimes wrap tape around
part of each bow to stop them going too far through the lock. The
anti-tightening lever on "cheap and nasty cuffs" can't be relied on.)
- Swing-on?
- Most 20th century handcuffs can be put on without using the key, since
the bows can swing through the lock and the ratchet mechanism. This
feature is used by police officers and can have a great psychological
effect since it's very fast. But if you do this, are you thinking about
the physical shock to the captive's joints and bones? Police officers
press the bows against the wrists rather than swing them on from a
distance. This reduces the risk of cracking bones and damaging joints
as several pounds of steel and policeman's arm comes to a sudden halt
against the delicate bones of the captive's wrist. (There is a similar
risk associated with some metal gags: avoid jerking them open rather than
pushing against the teeth smoothly. Otherwise you risk damaging the tooth
enamel or even chipping teeth themselves.)
- Hygiene?
- Have you thought through the hygiene implications of previous use of
the restraints? Might traces of other people's bodily fluids still be
there? Steel offers lots of options for disinfection that aren't
practical with rope or leather restraints.
- Unattended?
- Because steel bondage can be inescapable without being constricting,
it's tempting to use it for extended periods of time, including periods
of unattended bondage. If you've agreed to leave a captive unattended
in bondage, have you thought through the implications if something goes
wrong? Positions which are relatively risk-free when you're present can
be very dangerous if there is no one in the room to release the captive.
What if they vomit and can't move to cough it out and stop choking?
In some positions, a captive has to work hard to breath, possibly
using muscles to lift their head or chest up. If left unattended in
this position, they can tire and die from "positional asphyxia."
Unattended bondage is very controversial and condemned by some people:
have you thought through the risks for the captive in question, versus
the benefit of the scene you're trying to create?
- Top-down? Bottom-up?
- When you put a standing captive in bondage, are you working from top
downwards? When you're releasing them, are you working to undo the
bottom restraints first, and then working up? This reduces the risk of
the captive overbalancing when their feet or legs are still bound and
then falling over. Given the weight and inflexibility of some steel ankle
shackles or stocks, this is even more important a risk than it is with
rope bondage.
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